I haven't been around the site too much lately, even in the midst of all the good results. To cut to the point, I lost a friend, who lost his battle with depression, and ended his life.
He was one of my rugby mates, a Kiwi. Gregarious, charming, the sharpest of wits. He used to write up match reports that would induce a coffee spit take the following Monday morning. But inner struggles never left him. He had a wife and 2 young kids. They moved back to New Zealand a couple of years ago, and we would hear of incidents- cops, medical personnel, and such. He quit drinking. Came back to HK for a visit last year, repping a non-alcohol beer, and seemed his usual boisterous, endearing self. Then came the news last week, and all the regret and sorrow. Broken family left behind, broken mates.
This site is not only a gathering place for us long-suffering fans, but it's often a refuge from the turmoils of the world, both public and personal. The preponderance of us are men, and being Upper Midwest as our roots are, many steeped in stoic Scandinavian stock. We're not used to expressing much- well, beyond disappointment in our heroes on the ballfield. This is an appeal, I guess. Please, do keep an eye on your quiet friends. And if you happen to be one of those quiet friends, please don't be shy about reaching out, in any way that's comfortable. There isn't a right or wrong way, there isn't a perfect thing to say. Chat about fishing, the Twins, or just ask how ya doin'. Making a connection, letting someone know you're there, and so are they- any way to feel a little less alone.
My heart is in pieces, and tears have been flowing for days on end, at the slightest impulse. Perhaps even the simplest of connections, at the most random of times can make a difference to someone who's battling in silence.
My friend "Broomie" -
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It is with great sadness that we share the passing of Alex “Broomie” Broome. A Loonie legend through and through. His funeral is this Thursday 15th May and will be live streamed:...