TD moderators sometimes invest considerable time composing messages to fellow site members. Here are a few collected over time, edited slightly into short essays, on the subject of contributing respectfully. They seemed worth sharing more widely. 1: I wish you could just make your point without characterizing the other poster in the process. 2: 3: Worry about yourself, and less about other posters. 4: 5: If you see yourself in one of these images, maybe just take a break and come back tomorrow. http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/duty_calls.png 6: This site is here to discuss baseball and we wouldn’t be here if there weren’t divergent opinions. Further, articles are written and topics chosen to provoke discussion. The writers know that some will agree, some disagree. Your post wasn’t about the topic but rather to mock other posters. That won’t fly here. Stick to Twitter or the STrib comments section if that’s what you want to do. 7: Maybe you're an Overachiever? Want to go beyond the requirements of TD's Comment Policy, and become an elite rhetorical contributor? Have a look at this: Rapoport’s Rules to Criticize Someone Constructively The page provides this helpful summary: "You should attempt to re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly, and fairly that your target says, 'Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.' You should list any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement). You should mention anything you have learned from your target. Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism." I wonder how many of us could reach this lofty standard. 8: Here is a restatement by a relationship counselor about one simple rule. "The premise was simple, he said: Nothing you do or say to each other should drop below the level of simple respect. That was it." 9: Q: Why is this site's Policy so long? A: 1) It's not. At heart what we ask is, "post respectfully, and don't troll." 2) Tolstoy said in one of his novels, "happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." The parallel to unhappy posting habits is apt, and the variety of examples and re-phrasings of our policy reflects this.