It's not the anthem. It's actually making a stink over it by asking anyone to stand for a song that is patriotic in nature, but is not our anthem, not even close. If you want to stand, stand. If someone else chooses not to, let them. It might have meaning to you, but not to someone else, because it's not our National Anthem. It's a song written by Irving Berlin, and, from a musical standpoint, not even that great of a song. I cringe every time I hear it because I hate it. Woody Guthrie 'mocked' it when he wrote 'This Land Is Your Land.' Now, 'America, the Beautiful', that's a lovely song. But, it's still not our anthem. It just lands in the same genre with the myriad other of patriotic songs, which no one is obligated to, or should be shamed to, stand for. Imo.