I just try to keep it all in perspective ... it's just a game. Yes, I want to win and I hate to lose, but ... in the whole grand scheme of life, it's just a game; one I love, but it's just a game. I seriously wonder about and get frustrated with those in charge, but it's just a game. Maybe it's more of a mantra than true perspective. It's just a game. Keep saying that. Deeeeep breath in ... slow, long exhale. It's just a game. I also tend to not read comments here as much, which is very difficult, because, as a moderator, I do try to read everything. When it's a real chore, and over the past month it has been, I go back to my mantra and deep breathing.