Like I said, I think what we have here is because of years we've been 'together' ... and because of the individuals involved making an effort. I don't think that's the same experience on other social media platforms over all. It's not so much romanticizing how things were, it's that I think we still need to make contact, no matter how small; real, human contact. Look up once in a while to say 'hi' to your seatmate on the bus, or a passerby on the street. Not that you have to carry on some deep conversation, but, well, just look around. I've told this story before, but it really was meaningful to me. I got on the bus, sat down, and smiled at the woman next to me and said hi, then checked my phone. A couple of blocks later she tapped me on the arm and told me I made her day, just for saying hi. That she had been on the bus for 40-some blocks and not one person said hi, or even looked her way or acknowledged her ... because we are all too quick to keep to ourselves and keep our noses in our phones. I'm not suggesting we make a new friend every time we ride the bus, or get into a conversation even ... but just acknowledge humanity once in a while. That is missing, quite a lot. When I walk down the street I'm looking to see who will make eye contact. It's really very few. I've been on a picket line every day for the last 25 days ... some of my colleagues pace back and forth holding their sign and looking at their phones. I've made an effort to actually talk to people. It's been really amazing. I took a vegemite poll from two guys from Seattle, had a conversation with a family from Minnesota when I noticed they were wearing sandals in the cold and they said they were Minnesotans, I talked to a guy who had a mutual interest in learning how to play the bagpipes, met an elderly woman who lived next door to Pablo Casals decades ago on Puerto Rico, talked to someone about our shared experience with pancreatitis, etc. Of course there were many that passed by, but I said hi to as many people as I could. But I think people WANT to tell their stories ... why not take a minute to listen? That's how empathy is built, imo.