Okay, so you went down that road. Here we go. Regarding race, most white people have a limited scope of experience in this country. That's not hypocrisy, that's just reality. We don't see tons of **** that happen to people on a daily basis because it doesn't happen to us. This is even more problematic for straight white men, who suffer from no real discrimination at all when you get right down to it. Therefore, we white men need to listen from time to time because, sometimes, we don't see the experiences of different people and their day-to-day lives. This shouldn't be a radical concept, it should be common sense. When I needed help with an art assignment in school, I didn't chase down the gym teacher to talk about it. I found someone with real world experience in that arena, I shut up, and I listened for a hot minute. It's unbelievable to me that so many white men don't realize that their inability to comprehend that different people have different life experiences is part of their in-built bias. We're so used to ruling the damned world and being treated as the default setting for American Human Being that we've forgotten other people exist out there and those people may have a different perspective on the world. None of this means we're bad people. None of this means all this crap is our fault and our fault alone. It means we have a limited view of the world in this particular subject because we're not a part of that world. When I started renovating my kitchen, I wasn't ashamed that I had to ask my brother-in-law for guidance. He's a bloody fantastic carpenter with much more experience in that kind of work. Why do we view life experience so differently than skill and training? If you put a group of white people in a room and asked the question "Are we living in a post-racial society?", you'd get a variety of answers. Some people would nod yes, others would be unsure, some would disagree. If you put a group of black people into that same room and asked the same question, you'd be laughed out of the damned room. Why is this? And why are so many white people loathe to accept that reality? There are entire segments of America that fall 90%+ on one side of that argument and the split is clearly drawn along racial and gender lines. White people are the only segment of our society that splits on opinion or is unsure. Why does that happen? What are we missing here? In a normal world, that realization would cause people to rethink their stance. When one group of people with a specific life experience overwhelmingly disagrees with an opinion, there's a chance, just a chance, that we're missing something here because our life experiences aren't the same as every other American.