Yeah, it was hard not to read your quote there Vanimal and think you and I have very different impressions of working with kids. And of parenting. Part of the problem, IMO, is that we are at a point where seemingly stable kids can go completely off the deep end in rapid fashion. What was once just crushing to us for an hour, or a day, or a weekend (like a rejection or a fall out with a friend) is now so catastrophic for a number of reasons that kids have equally catastrophic reactions. I wouldn't call that a parenting problem as much as a cultural one and you can only insulate your kid from the culture so much.