As I always like to remind myself … it’s just a game. Yes, one I enjoy, one I like to understand in all its minutiae, and one I want my team to win, but in the end, I just can’t carry the grudges and angst some seem to, finger pointing and complaining even in wins, almost gloating in losses. In the vein of ‘it’s a marathon’, manage expectations is also a good philosophy: hope for the best, prepare for the worst, be happy for the wins, shrug off the losses - in the end, it’s just a game and not the meaning of life.
Thanks for the article for a healthy dose of perspective that is often lost on these boards.