I was just going to post something similar. I'm not an expert by any means, I just guided the creation of a 501c3 board that could support the cause. #1 What Police do in Domestic Violence situations is exactly the slogan you see on police cars: Serve and Protect. Number 1 job is to listen, make a determination of who the victim is and get them to a safe harbor. What is preached via lectures, media events, fundraiser, etc. is for those victims is to get to a safe place FIRST and call 911 from there. Are the Police always right? Not always. The thing is to get them separated and let the investigators make the determination. #2 Yes, men are victims of Domestic Violence, too. I've witnessed it in a man, several times bigger than his wife, being attacked in public verbally and physically by his wife. Not being trained, I contacted the people at the Healing House. They were already aware, but couldn't interview until either the police were called or the victim asks for help. After a little more that 30 years of marriage, the man contacted the Healing House for assistance. They are now divorced and a restraining order in place.