I'm going to take issue with two things here, though I very much agree with your first sentence. 1) People who deliberately shame and guilt trip women are absolutely in the wrong, but if you believe that those feelings don't manifest in women independently you're fooling yourself. I've been close to two women who were 100% supported by everyone around them, had a safe experience, and had nothing but love and assistance from those close to them. And yet still they mark every year with that decision and feel pain and some regret about it. We presume that the relationship a pregnant woman has with the fetus is driven by social pressures but women I know that had their pregnancy end (be it miscarriage or abortion) VERY much struggled with it because of feelings that were completely internal. It's something I've learned I can't understand completely, but also that it exists independently of anyone shaming them into feeling it. 2) The personhood of any of us is "imagined" - it is a definition we have created and applied to help make sense of our laws. I really dislike it when personhood is talked about as if it is some sort of factual, black and white issue. The definition has changed many times depending upon who we want to exempt from the protection of our laws.