First of all, I said 'in general' because I know it's a generalization. It's not an individual indictment, but generally speaking, it's true. Secondly, your response is part of the problem. I'm sorry, but it is. Your first response is to recoil, point a finger and claim unfair sexism and racism without even perhaps looking hard in the mirror and asking from where, perhaps, did my response start from. I'll tell you where it started. I was 10 years old when my mom ran for a position in the state legislature. The response I, as a 10 year old, got from total strangers, white male strangers, educated me at too young an age. When I was in junior high, being groped by a boy in school and told it was nothing. Being told, in church, that I was 'less' for being female and that my role is to serve men. Open my mouth in high school to debate gay rights and told to shut up, and apparently it's acceptable for boys to do that to the girls but not vice versa. Paying more for my health insurance in my 20s because I might get pregnant, but not covering my prescription for birth control. Getting paid SIGNIFICANTLY less than my male colleagues. Being underestimated, dismissed and ignored at every turn, because, well, that's just how it is. And my experiences are nothing compared to most women.