It's absolutely not a strawman. I'm taking your logic and applying it to a different group of humans and suddenly you feel like I'm calling you evil or uncaring. But you only feel that way because an abused 6 year old or a druggie 28 year old on welfare are harder to deny as "people". It's the same sort of pragmatism you are arguing, the only difference is that when you do it you're talking about a fetus. When one pushes hard enough on the "logic" behind the pro-choice movement it invariably falls back to this: "only take my arguments about pragmatism so far as they concern a fetus. After that I abandon them completely." Because it's convenient for us to not see a fetus as human because it makes our conclusions easier to swallow. Like you, I don't know the answer about personhood. I'm not sure there can be an answer, but I know I don't like bad arguments out of convenience. So should abortion be legal? Absolutely, we have no other choice but to abuse the rights of women. (So, not an option) But that doesn't excuse the bad arguments the other way and maybe, just maybe, if we confront them honestly and look for true solutions - maybe someday we can find one.