Some of your stated examples certainly deserve criticism. Whether one thinks they are as bad, worse, or better than say Jeyne Poole is pretty open to opinion. Not a real pleasant debate either I'd expect. I just bristle because we seem to have gotten to a point in critiquing things that we get really nitpicky about what we accept and don't accept. Show watchers are overly harsh on the book and book readers border on needing a straight jacket when talking about the show. The truth is no show or book is perfect, there are always holes to poke if you choose to. What I struggle with is people who refuse to accept that both are flawed, it usually turns into whichever one they like more is flawless and the other one is a crapfest of the highest order. It's happening on a lot of things and I think I've just had enough of it. The misogyny angle is usually one of the first ones. Then plot. And both, I'd argue, are major issues in the book too for different reasons, Though the first three books were among my favorite fantasy novels, the last two took a serious step backwards for me.