I have occassionally given into being negative week after week after week. Sometimes you get caught up in an emotion, and a direction to your thoughts. As I've had people tell me I do that, I've learned a lot about myself and how my mind can cause my own unhappiness. As I've read some Buddhist writings, and a lot of yoga stuff, I've learned a lot about taking a break from a negative train of thought. Just. Stop. For awhile. If you can learn to take a break, you can stop your mind from creating a self-feeding loop of unhappiness. I'm not perfect at it, I've ranted here a few times and looked back and thought "wth was I thinking". Hopefully I've decreased that over time....... Other people, I hope they learn to take a breath every once in a while, and to see both the good and the bad in life/twins/whatever they are thinking about. Really, none of this matters to me in the real world, but sometimes I forget that, and actually do get worked up about the Twins, or posters' thoughts. Eventually I catch myself, and breathe again.......I'm hoping this week is one of those where I am catching myself and stopping. *edit....this was in response to the comment from jim not understanding how people can be negative all the time. I understand how it happens, that's all this post was. nothing more or less than that.