I won't argue with that at all and I don't think you're arguing the characterizations are strong, but there is that interpretation out there in ASOIAF fandom. The show is starting to reach those same troublesome parts with Dany, but what will ultimately matter most for both the show and the book is how she comes out of it. That remains to be seen, so I'm willing to wait and see (and hope) with her. Sansa? Terrible. I think what many readers struggle with is that when the show lays bare the novel, it's hard for them to swallow. (Not saying that's you) They want so badly to believe Sansa is on the road to redemption and away from victimhood and blame the show for portraying her that way, but the truth is that she is every bit (if not moreso) the hapless, gullible, stupid, selfish, emotionally driven caricature of a woman that the show has made her to be. She is so obsessed with love and needing a husband that she has literally gotten half her family killed and caused thousands of deaths. Worse yet - it took a sneaky, manipulative man to pull her out of those awful choices and is currently manipulating her (again) towards his own ends. MAYBE Martin has Sansa turn the tables on Littlefinger, but that would still be so, so far out of character for her that I don't see how that's possible.