I'm going to say this once and I do not like bringing my children into this conversation, as it is unseemly and just repugnant. I have adopted two black children. I love them to pieces, there is nothing more that I treasure than my two perfect little girls. But more than how much I love them is my desire that I should never have needed to adopt them in the first place; that the world should be a fair, just place where white people don't need to adopt black children because their parents can't care for them due to a system that has banked on imprisonment, unfair judicial rulings, and a general demeanor that they're unfit to exist. And I actively work against that happening to future generations of black children. I donate money, mind space, voice, and activism to prevent this from continuing. I cry about how much I love my little babies but I would trade them for a world where my taking them into care out of necessity didn't exist. And it just crushes me to admit that I'd give away my precious little girls to make the world a better place. But I would. Because they'd be better for it and, ultimately, that's what I want for them. So how do I represent "systemic racism" again?