I will be honest that my views on SSM morphed a lot due to the conversations on BYTO. My personal faith still holds me to my beliefs on many things, but there was excellent discussion regarding having faith and still being able to love who you love. There are many who opened their minds in those discussions, and I won't single anyone out at all, but there are plenty on this board now whose expressed views on BYTO have morphed over the years, and they had morphed before even coming to this site due to the extended discussions that frequently happened on the "tough" topics on that site. Until recently, it was my biggest thing I missed in the transition to Twins Daily as I enjoyed having an intellectual discussion on life topics. It seems like those topics have become more frequent discussion points in the last 6 months to a year, and I appreciate having a well-moderated, issue-focused discussion with anyone, regardless of how opposite of my views their views may be.