Well that's just it, right? You fan your way. Others fan their way. Why do you feel the need to call folks out? Some of the things you're talking about it, I haven't posted in that way and frankly, I don't see anyone else doing it either. Who is questioning players' dedication? Where's the disrespect?
There can be criticism without it being disrespectful or questioning someone's dedication.
I've always been of the mindset that if you don't like content, scrolling is your friend. So long as it's not personal or targeting individual posters, I think this should be a safe space to express opinions without people looking over their shoulder with a tsk, tsk every time there's a different opinion.