Okay, I'll just say it: I'm racist. I admit it. My biases are something I work on regularly and have improved on drastically over time, but there are still some deep-rooted biases buried in there I have yet to overcome. As white society, we need to take some responsibility for building this construct that hurts so many people. Maybe our individual contributions are tiny but if we reject the notion we're part of this system in any way, shape, or form, these problems won't be fixed until white people are outnumbered in sheer voting population. Because if we're not contributing to this problem, how does it still exist? Do we just blame our parents and move on? Well, what happens when our kids see the same problem? Do they just blame us and move on? Secondly, there's a compassion component in this conversation that bothers me. We all acknowledge that white society has disproportionate control of society and how it operates. We all acknowledge that non-white people generally get the short end of the stick in pretty much every regard. It costs us literally nothing to stop, show a little compassion, shut up for a minute, and listen to a few things that may make us uncomfortable. Because our reality of facing uncomfortable discussion pales to the actual reality of getting dicked over by society and the government on a daily basis. In short, we need to check our egos at the door and think about what we're doing here.