The very stance which was President Obama's identical stance up until May 10, 2012. Look, I don't have a dog in this hunt, my opinion is strictly libertarian- in that the state shouldn't have any say in the sanctioning or defining of any marriages, all matters of this level of import with regard to personal freedom should be based on the credo- "minimum government, maximum freedom". Unfortunately, this view is all too uncomfortable for both political spectrums. But it's the left in particular of late, that has led us to the point- in increasing areas of American life, a person risks sanction for exercising his or her freedom of speech, thought or belief- in this case, for the support of "traditional" marriage- but free expression has been frozen in many areas, it's called The Tyranny of the Majority. I believe those that hold each opposing viewpoint feel that it is they that hold the "moral high ground." (And again, that's not a hill I would ever to choose to climb, because it's a place that takes away personal liberty).